In life you have to be a soldier. No one said is was going to be easy but if you push hard enough it will be worth it. The hardest thing in life is to let go of the ones you love. Rather it's a death or an end to the relationship.
It really tears me up inside that I let a friend go that I truly care for. We've been friends for quite some time. But at the end of the day, it is what it is. Some people like to stay exactly where they are. Even if they say one thing. Don't listen to what they say, watch what they do. Just because you love someone doesn't mean that they have to be a part of your everyday life. Especially if they have no vision and play the victim, look for excuses and not results. Let them go. If you want to grow, you have to let go.
Yes it hurts!!! No it's not easy! Stop putting your trust in man and put your trust in God. He will send you what you need. He has been replacing people in my life and He can do the same for you. So just let it go. Keep pushing. Pain don't last always.
~Choose Life
"If you can't change your friends, change your friends"
Hey I just subscribed to your posts, I found you on Twitter. Love your writings, very honest and very true to life. Have you considered motivational speaking? Both adults and teens need these messages. I am going to have my girls, 15 and 13 1/2 read what you have so far written here as well. Today's teen-agers have ISSUES. Good grief. They deal with so many of life's problems at such an early age.
ReplyDeleteDon't change what you do and how you are doing it, it's beautiful. Stay encouraged my sister and don't faint, you will get to that promised land even in the land of living. Glory to God!
Dawn Davidson (realskinnyoneve)
Tiff, this is deep and very true. I've realized that you do have to let some people go in order to better yourself. Just because your friends with someone doesn't mean they're or were truly your friend.
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